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Welcome to Confidence In Heels

Helping YOU to:

Get Clear

Get Confident

And Live The Life You Want - not what someone else expects!

First, let me ask you this.

  • Do you feel that life is passing you by, unhappy with what you're doing but confused about what you want?
  • Do you find you end up doing things you'd rather not do, because you can't say no?
  • Do you feel scared about speaking up or worried about not being heard?  

If you do, you're not alone.

Confidence In Heels was created just for you.

I believe you can create a life of your own design, whatever your age.  It's time for YOU to believe in yourself. 


Waking up each morning, bouncing out of bed and as you drink your first coffee of the day, feel excited about what the day could bring.


Grabbing your handbag, snatching up your keys and taking yourself off for a guilt-free lunchtime indulgence that renews your spirit and soul


Meeting your girlfriends for a drink after work.  As you drink your cocktail, you can't wait to tell them all about your new dream job.


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We all have a story to tell...

This is mine...

I'm what's termed a 'woman of a certain age' whatever the hell that actually means.  I've been married for 27 years to my long-suffering husband, Julian.  We live in Berkshire, not far from, Windsor which is one of my favourite towns.  We have three dogs.  Two Boston Terriers, Bonnie (10), Reuben (5) and a very naughty Pug called Frank - age indeterminate as he is a rescue.

I went to University to study Law, but decided against pursuing that career - and, before you ask, it had nothing to do with the wig!  While taking my very first temporary job, I fell into HR.  I stayed in HR for the next 30 years, becoming CIPD qualified and obtaining my coaching certification.

At the time, I was busy climbing the corporate management ladder, working long hours and having no social life.  My husband and I were basically ships that passed in the night.  I was obsessed with work.  Friends and family called me a workaholic.

But, in 2016, stress got the better of me, and I became ill. The confidence I once had, left me.  I thought my world had ended, and when my mum was diagnosed with Alzheimer's, I decided to take a step back from my career. I didn't realise then how this would be the beginning of a more exciting life that was in tune with how I wanted to live. One I never imagined could be possible.

I believe everything happens for a reason. For me, it was the realisation I was not doing the work that I wanted to do.  I was too busy trying to please and impress other people.  For me, my passion has always been learning and development - helping others to achieve success.

The corporate world I called my home is now behind me. But I learned so many valuable lessons from being a part of it and worked with some fantastic people. So I take with me 30 years of experience as a senior HR Manager, trainer and qualified coach.

I'm on a mission to help women build their confidence so that they live the life they want, not what someone else has decided for them.  To help all those beautiful, talented women ooze with self-belief and confidence in who they are and what they do.

Let me help you:

  • Discover who you really are and what you want from this funny old thing we call life.
  • Ditch the guilt and build the confidence to believe in yourself so you live the life you want. 
  • Do more of what makes you happy because you deserve it, and it makes you more confident!

I know there is a way to live a better life.

Let me show you how.

I love hearing from you!

Really, I do! You can always email me if you have a specific question or need more guidance. And I love connecting with my community and hearing your stories, so grab a cup of coffee or tea, and let’s chat!

You can email me at alison@confidenceinheels.com 

Be The Woman You Know You Can Be